Bulling

Let’s examine some reasons why children act out this way. Knowing the possible reasons can keep your heart soft while you seek to help a bully in your church.

Parents set a poor example. The old adage, “The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree,” proves true. Children learn their behaviors from role models.

A need for control may cause some kids to bully. Kids who frequently experience abuse or neglect in their home are more likely to bully.

Substance abuse can be a factor. Children who are bullies may drink alcohol, use tobacco, and take drugs. Being under the influence of these items can become a factor in child bullying. Even high caffeine energy drinks can alter a child’s personality and increase aggressiveness.

An absence of spiritual leadership will lead a child to bullying. Jesus taught, “Anyone who hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life in him.” 1 John 3:15

(Next week we’ll look at some ways to cope with bullying.  I will be teaching a lesson on bullying on Sunday, 11/13/11 and Wednesday, 11/16/011 )